This video provides letting go techniques to feel better if your spouse wants a divorce or separation. This is also helpful for other past traumas and pain. Learn how to let go with these techniques that you can use to move forward in life with less pain, grief, and emotional injury.… Read More
There are many out there who get intimacy mixed up with other healthy relationship “requirements.”
Intimacy is not the same thing as sexuality and is not the same thing as passion.
So what is it?
Intimacy is “in-to-me-see”!
It is truly knowing and trusting your partner; it is being vulnerable around each other; it is absolute commitment and understanding; it is offering up care and compassion in times of need; it is being a “we” and not a “me”; and it is open and honest communication.… Read More
Coach Lee explains how to stay in the moment and to focus on the process so that you have a better chance of reuniting with your spouse.
As he says, when you are focusing too much on the outcome you want, you wll be less likely to achieve that outcome.… Read More
An interview with Coach Lee Wilson
Interviewer: I’m exploring a potentially rising phenomenon of married couples taking time apart to pursue separate activities before coming back together stronger. This might have been because the marriage was unhappy, because they wanted to do things that their spouse didn’t want to do, or because they wanted to “rediscover” their independence for a bit.… Read More
Adult ADHD isn’t the unusual diagnosis it used to be.
Even when it comes to marriage and serious dating relationships, more and more people have a better idea of the challenges related to being married, seriously committed to, or just hopelessly in love with someone possessing the unmissable gifts you can’t imagine living without, such as:
Below is a list of hobbies that a married couple can share. We suggest printing out this list and circling hobbies that interest you. Have your spouse do the same. Then find the ones that you both circled. It would make sense to invest time and energy into hobbies you can do together.… Read More
In June, 2704 married individuals responded to our survey regarding the impact on marriages from the re-openings after lockdowns. The responding individuals were married as of June 3, 2021.
The survey asked the following main question (with related questions below) :
… Read MoreSince the re-opening following the lockdowns of 2020/2021 and significant return to normal from the changes of the COVID-19 pandemic, has your marriage relationship been impacted?
Note: Coach Lee Wilson was interviewed in a story by the New York Times regarding a poll/survey he did of married couples who were considering divorce prior and during the lockdowns of COVID-19.… Read More
I noticed this 1st incredibly effective manipulation dynamic in multiple people who many times turned out to be narcissistic – and to this day I don’t even know if it’s intentional or just the natural outlook of any mind consumed with its own happiness and feelings above all others.… Read More
Though less than 5% of the population could be clinically diagnosed as having “Narcissistic Personality Disorder,” if someone you think you want to be in a relationship with acts like a narcissist, why would you want to be in a relationship with them?… Read More
According to some media reports, marriages are cracking under the strain of lockdown and divorce rates are soaring. In August, Mailonline reported a divorce boom in the United States.
In September BBC news reported a divorce boom in the UK. Read between the lines, though, and you should start to smell a rat.… Read More
In this video, Coach Lee reveals 7 signs that suggest your ex or separated spouse misses you.
If your ex or separated spouse shows signs of missing you, that doesn’t mean that getting back together is a sure thing, but it does mean that it’s likely to be a possibility.… Read More
Does the No Contact Rule work for marriages who are separated or where one spouse wants a divorce?
Can you save your marriage with the No Contact Rule?
In the video above and this post relationship expert Coach Lee discusses whether the No Contact Rule can help to get a husband or wife back in marriages that are in danger of divorce or separation (or are already separated).… Read More
If you are married and your spouse has left you, meaning that you are separated or divorced and you want to reunite with your spouse or ex, then the Intelligent Contact Rule is likely going to help you.… Read More
Note from Coach Lee: The title of Metro’s interview with me suggests that I didn’t think any of the cast from Love Is Blind will make it, but that’s not what I think.
My main assertion is that the setup of the highly entertaining show places the couples in a position to experience what is known as limerence and that marrying during that time is a risky proposition that could end up being difficult for them as limerence fades without them having a history, experiences, or real-life situations together beyond conversation.… Read More
Gaslighting is a kind of psychological manipulation in which a person, sometimes acting with others, sows seeds of doubt in a targeted individual, causing that person to question their own memory, perception, or judgment, often evoking in them changes such as low self-esteem.… Read More
