Does the No Contact Rule work for marriages who are separated or where one spouse wants a divorce?
Can you save your marriage with the No Contact Rule?
In the video above and this post relationship expert Coach Lee discusses whether the No Contact Rule can help to get a husband or wife back in marriages that are in danger of divorce or separation (or are already separated).… Read More
Dr. Joe Beam will be joined by his wife, Alice, for this special program as they discuss How to Become the Hero of Your Marriage, and how Alice was the hero of their marriage when she took Joe back after their 3 year divorce.… Read More
Good marriage counselors are worth their weight in gold.
There are thousands of well-trained individuals out there who work for the couple and not for one individual and who work with ethics in mind—these counselors help both parties with their individual and combined goals in order to help the couple move forward — whatever that may look like.… Read More
by RACHEL HOSIE
Rom-coms would have us believe that our main goal in life should be finding ‘the one.’ And once you’ve found them, you have to pin them down by tying the knot.… Read More
The goal of this article is not to fixate on the word “fix,” but rather to look at the mindset of using that word and the phrase that is the title of this article.… Read More
There are many out there who get intimacy mixed up with other healthy relationship “requirements.”
Intimacy is not the same thing as sexuality and is not the same thing as passion.
So what is it?
Intimacy is “in-to-me-see”!
It is truly knowing and trusting your partner; it is being vulnerable around each other; it is absolute commitment and understanding; it is offering up care and compassion in times of need; it is being a “we” and not a “me”; and it is open and honest communication.… Read More
Watch the important video above all the way through and then read the article below all the way to the end.
It’s often the advice given by those who share both good intentions and flippancy about your crumbling marriage.
“If you love someone, let them go.… Read More
1. Having a ChildThe first crisis in most marriages is the birth of their first child.
Though it’s tempting to nurture our children above our marriage, statistics tell us that children in homes with parents in strong marriages are more successful, mentally stable and have more self-esteem on average than children in homes with parents in weak relationships.… Read More
Jesus said, “I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery” (Matthew 19:9, NIV).
The King James Translation of the Bible says, “fornication” where the New International Translation says, “marital unfaithfulness.”… Read More
If those are your questions, Coach Lee speaks in detail about this topic in this powerful video.
Be sure to watch the video above all the way through before reading this article.… Read More
If you are married and your spouse has left you, meaning that you are separated or divorced and you want to reunite with your spouse or ex, then the Intelligent Contact Rule is likely going to help you.
Be sure to watch the video above ALL THE WAY THROUGH to help you understand the dynamics involved in interacting and contacting your ex or separated spouse if you have to interact with him or her on a regular basis due to having children together, working together, owning homes, property, or pets together, and other similar situations that prevent you from using the No Contact Rule.… Read More
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“God will bless us if we divorce our mates and marry each other. It’s right there in the Bible.”
“Really?” I replied. “Please enlighten me.”
He was entangled with a woman at his church. Each was married to someone else, but now both professed undying love and devotion to the other.… Read More
There seems to be a growing trend in the world of Psychology which overlaps into an area that sadly has always been a trend in the world throughout time…heartbreak.
If you’re old enough to read this article, chances are you’re old enough to know the pain I’m talking about.… Read More
You were “madly in love” with someone who you weren’t married to but now the affair is over. At least it seems to be over. Part of you wants it over, but another part of you is mourning the relationship. Whether you ended it or the lover did, you continue to struggle with intense emotions.… Read More
One person wrote, “She points out everything I ever did wrong. When I ask how my flaws compare to her sleeping with another man, she curses me and walks away.”
Another wrote, “He lives with his lover though we’re still married.… Read More
Joe Beam, host of The Joe Beam Show, has real life experience with what it is like to save a marriage after an affair. He knows because he has lived it.
And so has his wife, Alice. They’ve been restoring marriages that are on the brink of divorce for 20 years because of the experience they had with their own marriage.… Read More
You may have seen the statistics. One in five marriages are in the “no sex” category. That means they have sex with each other ten times a year or less. Another 15% are in the “low sex” category, which means they have sex with each other 11 to 25 times per year.… Read More
Whether it’s done by your best friend, your child, or your spouse, it hurts when we discover that we’ve been lied to, doesn’t it?
No one that I know of likes being deceived. Even in affairs, I often hear the spouse who was cheated on say something such as, “As much as the affair hurt, it hurt me even more that s/he lied to me!”… Read More
John and Mary have been married for over 28 years and for the past six years, Mary has refused to have sex with her husband.
She does not seem to have any interest in sex herself nor does she have any desire for pleasing her husband.… Read More
You spouse is involved with someone else.
You love your mate and want to save your marriage. You are looking for an effective system that works powerfully in helping people save their marriages. You paid close attention when Dr. Beam explained how to be a safe place for your straying spouse and you have tried to be that person in hopes of salvaging your marriage.… Read More
Does praying for a troubled marriage work to bring back love, intimacy, and commitment with a straying spouse or simply a marriage that is hurting?
There’s a couple of ways to look at this question and possibly more answers to it.… Read More
How do affairs happen? How can they be prevented?
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Tonight’s broadcast is entitled, An Interview with a Man who Had an Affair and Why He Decided to Save His Marriage.
You won’t want to miss tonight’s episode. Whether you have had an affair, or your spouse is the one who has had the affair, now you have the opportunity to listen to a man who recently was involved in an affair but decided to save his marriage.… Read More
On this episode we will discuss how to confess an affair without losing your marriage. By now you’ve likely heard of the hacking of the Ashley Madison website which is a website that helps people find partners with whom to have an affair.… Read More
Wonder how affairs happen? Why people become so emotionally connected to the affair partner?
And if there is any hope of ending the affair and saving the marriage?
In this program I interview a couple who survived the wife’s infidelty. She fell head-over-heels in love with another man.… Read More
Maybe you or your spouse were caught red-handed in the Ashley Madison leak. Maybe the affair came to surface in another way and one of you is asking when to end your marriage because he or she doesn’t know how to get past an affair.… Read More
If you have an extramarital affair, you can ruin your child’s chances for having happy love when s/he is grown. That applies no matter what age the child is when you have the affair, even if your “child” is now old enough to be in college.… Read More
Getting through the holidays while in marriage crisis can be hard.
Between holiday shopping, work parties, in-laws, and traveling, things can get confusing and messy.
Things may be even more complicated if you have children.
All you want to do is get through to January 1st emotionally unscathed and with your marriage still intact. … Read More
Ever wish you could really understand what your spouse is saying?
You hear the words, you respond, and s/he reacts in a completely different way than you expected.
You know you aren’t communicating clearly with each other but it doesn’t make sense to you why you aren’t.… Read More
Whether you are being controlled by your spouse or your spouse has told you that you are controlling, you won’t want to miss this episode.
Control destroys marriages. It is the silent killer.
It can linger for years and years while people lay in misery…wishing so badly for things to be different.… Read More
Many times people exhibit controlling behaviors without realizing it.
Other times people are controlled and don’t know how to handle it in their marriage or otherwise.
Either way, controlling behavior can lead to a hostile and anxious environment, which is not what you want in a marriage (or anywhere really).… Read More
You can’t go out with your friends–you better stay here tonight, or else.
I’m not going with you anymore to your parent’s house; they annoy me.
This is how I do things around here and I expect you to do the same.… Read More
One of the most common reasons for major marital discord is a spouse who feels controlled, disrespected, or dominated by the other.
Interestingly, the dominating spouse often doesn’t believe s/he is being controlling.
No one wants to be treated as a child, especially by the person that is supposed to be our partner…our equal…our mate.… Read More
Whether you are controlling, someone is claiming you are but you disagree, or you are being controlled in a relationship, there is something going on that needs to be fixed in your marriage.
No one wants to be controlled, yet everyone’s view point on what ‘controlling’ actually means can differ based on past experience, the specific situation, and thoughts and opinions about what is going on.… Read More
Your spouse wants out of the marriage…but you don’t.
In the process of trying to end the marriage, your spouse is trying to do things that you want no part of. Maybe s/he’s spending time with the “lover” while still living at home.… Read More
Note from Coach Lee: The title of Metro’s interview with me suggests that I didn’t think any of the cast from Love Is Blind will make it, but that’s not what I think.
My main assertion is that the setup of the highly entertaining show places the couples in a position to experience what is known as limerence and that marrying during that time is a risky proposition that could end up being difficult for them as limerence fades without them having a history, experiences, or real-life situations together beyond conversation.… Read More
That’s okay.
If you have ever wondered in the middle of your marriage crisis, “Where is God during all of this?”… Read More
Have you ever prayed about love? Perhaps something that you wanted to happen. Maybe something you didn’t want to happen.
It might have been about a specific person, either someone you already have a relationship or marriage with or that you want a relationship or marriage with.… Read More
Be sure to watch the video above all the way before reading the article below on prayer and getting your spouse to work on your marriage or even on getting them back.
Your children pour out their hearts.… Read More
You’ve just been dumped by the love of your life.
You can’t stop crying, shaking and pleading for a magic potion to help you win their love back. Is that even a possibility?
“’Can I get my ex back’ is the most common question I get after a breakup,” says relationship coach Lee Wilson, founder of MyExBackCoach.com.… Read More
Gaslighting is a kind of psychological manipulation in which a person, sometimes acting with others, sows seeds of doubt in a targeted individual, causing that person to question their own memory, perception, or judgment, often evoking in them changes such as low self-esteem.… Read More
If your spouse has left you for another person, is wanting a different lifestyle than you and is not around, has filed for divorce, or you have already divorced and are having trouble moving on…how do you move on and how do you know it is time?… Read More
