Affair recovery is possible when both spouses understand how the betrayal happened and how to repair trust, connection, and safety. This category focuses on rebuilding a marriage after infidelity, restoring intimacy, and deciding how to move forward with clarity rather than panic or resentment.
Infidelity is one of the most painful betrayals in a relationship, leaving the spouse who was cheated on questioning everything about the marriage and themselves. For many, understanding why men (a husband) cheat can bring a sense of clarity, even if it doesn’t erase the...
Limerence is a term coined by psychologist Dorothy Tennov in her 1979 book Love and Limerence: The Experience of Being in Love. It describes a state of intense infatuation, obsession, and longing for another person, often accompanied by intrusive thoughts and idealization. While limerence in itself...
Determining the fate of your marriage during challenging times requires careful thought and consideration. Navigating the complex waters of marital discord is challenging. Understanding whether your marriage is over or if there’s hope for reconciliation is a critical first step. Avoid Rush Decisions: The Pressure...
Recognizing the Signs of an Affair in Your Marriage If you’re wanting to know signs that your spouse is having an affair or cheating, you’re not alone. Many are grappling with suspicions that their spouse might be unfaithful. Numerous private investigators have consulted with me...
In the labyrinth of human emotions, few experiences are as intense and consuming as limerence. Coined in the late 1970s by psychologist Dorothy Tennov, limerence is an involuntary state of deep infatuation and obsessive longing for reciprocal affection from another person. You want to know...
Introduction to “The 4 Stages of Limerence” In 1979, psychologist Dorothy Tennov first coined the term ‘limerence’ to describe the “madly in love” experience of some new romantic relationships. Limerence is a form of obsessive love, distinguished by an overwhelming, emotionally intense attraction to another...
In this video, Coach Lee discusses what you can do if you are still interacting with your spouse but he or she has expressed doubts or even says that they don’t want to stay in the marriage or do any work to save it. Get...
“Why is my husband having an affair?” “Why is my wife having an affair?” Beyond the painful sting of learning that your spouse is having an affair is the nagging question, “Why?” “Why would my husband cheat on me?” “Why would my wife cheat on...
This video provides letting go techniques to feel better if your spouse wants a divorce or separation. This is also helpful for other past traumas and pain. Learn how to let go with these techniques that you can use to move forward in life with...
In this program, a brave woman who is with her husband but still “deeply in love” with another man tells her story. She is willing to answer questions and talk about her situation.
Coach Lee explains the mental state of limerence and what you can do if your spouse or ex boyfriend/girlfriend is having a limerence affair or rebound relationship.
He had an affair that nearly ended the marriage. He told her he was sorry. He said he wanted them to try to work things out, but he’s not quite ready to reconcile.
Are their benefits to having an affair? What are the pros and cons to having an affair?
Do you believe that you and your spouse are a match made in Heaven? Did you meet your spouse in a very significant way that led you to believe it was God’s work? Now, imagine that you are lusting over another person or even cheated...
Has your spouse cheated?
Are your friends and family urging you to kick your mate out? Punish him or her? Get on with your life?
But you find yourself wondering if that is what you should do.
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