Limerence is a term coined by psychologist Dorothy Tennov in her 1979 book Love and Limerence: The Experience of Being in Love.
It describes a state of intense infatuation, obsession, and longing for another person, often accompanied by intrusive thoughts and idealization.… Read More
Determining the fate of your marriage during challenging times requires careful thought and consideration.
Navigating the complex waters of marital discord is challenging.
Understanding whether your marriage is over or if there’s hope for reconciliation is a critical first step.… Read More
If you’re wanting to know signs that your spouse is having an affair or cheating, you’re not alone.
Many are grappling with suspicions that their spouse might be unfaithful.… Read More
In the labyrinth of human emotions, few experiences are as intense and consuming as limerence.
Coined in the late 1970s by psychologist Dorothy Tennov, limerence is an involuntary state of deep infatuation and obsessive longing for reciprocal affection from another person.… Read More
Introduction to “The 4 Stages of Limerence”
In 1979, psychologist Dorothy Tennov first coined the term ‘limerence’ to describe the “madly in love” experience of some new romantic relationships.
Limerence is a form of obsessive love, distinguished by an overwhelming, emotionally intense attraction to another person.… Read More
In this video, Coach Lee discusses what you can do if you are still interacting with your spouse but he or she has expressed doubts or even says that they don’t want to stay in the marriage or do any work to save it.… Read More
“Why is my husband having an affair?” “Why is my wife having an affair?”
Beyond the painful sting of learning that your spouse is having an affair is the nagging question, “Why?”
“Why would my husband cheat on me?” “Why would my wife cheat on me?”… Read More
This video provides letting go techniques to feel better if your spouse wants a divorce or separation. This is also helpful for other past traumas and pain. Learn how to let go with these techniques that you can use to move forward in life with less pain, grief, and emotional injury.… Read More
Be sure to watch this important video above about limerence all the way through.
What does it feel like?
How does a person get into this situation?
Why is she in love with another man who is not her husband?… Read More
What is limerence? In the video above, Coach Lee explains the mental state of limerence and what you can do if your spouse is having what is called a “limerence affair” or rebound relationship.… Read More
Trust is one of the most significant hallmarks of any relationship; if you cannot trust your other half, how can you grow and flourish in your marriage?
Whether the trust between a married couple was broken and both parties know the reason, or there is suspicion of an affair happening and it has not yet been proven, living with that giant elephant in the room between the two can be difficult on a daily basis and can cause a rift in the marriage that may not be able to be mended.… Read More
“God will bless us if we divorce our mates and marry each other. It’s right there in the Bible.”
“Really?” I replied. “Please enlighten me.”
He was entangled with a woman at his church. Each was married to someone else, but now both professed undying love and devotion to the other.… Read More
Do you believe that you and your spouse are a match made in Heaven?
Did you meet your spouse in a very significant way that led you to believe it was God’s work?
Now, imagine that you are lusting over another person or even cheated on your spouse with that other person and no longer desire to be with your spouse. … Read More
Discovering that your spouse is having an affair can be devastating and can leave you conflicted about what to do going forward.
You may be getting advice, strong opinions, and even judgement from friends and family that you may or may not want or from random people on the internet—but ultimately the decision is yours to make and whatever you choose will affect your future forever.… Read More
Be sure to watch the video above all the way through before reading the article below to the end.
When Dr. Tennov, an American psychologist, introduced a concept in the 1970s, it was mostly rejected.… Read More
