We make time for lots of things in our lives – chores, working out, coffee with a friend, keeping up with our favorite shows, reading, working, walking the dog, and all kinds of other things that are crammed into our busy schedules.… Read More
What is limerence? In the video above, Coach Lee explains the mental state of limerence and what you can do if your spouse is having what is called a “limerence affair” or rebound relationship.… Read More
by Rob Jackson, MS, LPC, LMHC, NCC
Note: Given the brevity of the article, it is not possible to cover all the facets of this disorder. Anyone suspecting he or she has this condition is strongly encouraged to speak with a professional counselor.… Read More
1. Having a ChildThe first crisis in most marriages is the birth of their first child.
Though it’s tempting to nurture our children above our marriage, statistics tell us that children in homes with parents in strong marriages are more successful, mentally stable and have more self-esteem on average than children in homes with parents in weak relationships.… Read More
Though it’s often a complaint we hear from a wife that her husband won’t talk, we often receive a request for help from a husband who says, “My wife won’t talk to me.”… Read More
Duke University has new research that shows sex can be a spiritual experience that makes men more likely to believe in the existence of God. The same result likely occurs in women, but has yet to be researched.
The study involved the “cuddle hormone,” Oxtocin, which is produced in larger quantity during and after sex.… Read More
If a small part of you died when you found out that sex doesn’t actually count as exercise, this news should revive you: Sex may deliver the even better benefit of prolonging your life, according to the results of a small study first published online in the medical journal, Psychoneuroendocrinology in March that’s just making its rounds.… Read More
It’s been a stressful week for both husband and wife. Work, political news, kids, car repair, barking dogs, and paying bills.
Is anyone short of breath yet? But, for those couples who have decided to make a commitment to at least one night a week that is just for the two of them, it’s date night!… Read More
In this video, relationship strategist, Coach Lee, will show you how to stop a divorce.
If you don’t want a divorce to happen, you need to pay close attention.
by Coach Lee
Your instincts usually betray you in this situation and that is why it is important to stay calm and to put together a plan.… Read More
I’m not sure where I first heard the following quote, but it has stuck with me over the years: “We schedule our priorities and prioritize our schedule.”
I know I heard it from my dad when we discussed an excuse I made as a teenager in high school.… Read More
When does no contact start working?
When will no contact start to work on your husband or wife during separation?
If those are your questions, Coach Lee speaks in detail about this topic in this powerful video.… Read More
Is porn a problem for your dating life?
Let me count the ways. Well, for starters, here are just three:
This is a no-brainer. Indeed, it’s the logical outcome of what porn is intended to do.… Read More
It can be so difficult to hear when coming from someone you love.
It’s confusing, hurtful, and sends a wave of panic through our stomachs. It’s the “I need space,” speech.
Often times they won’t make eye contact when they ask and it’s difficult to read them.… Read More
If you are considering delaying your divorce to save your marriage, you have come to the right place.
Imagine finding out that your spouse is cheating on you.
You confront them but make it clear that you would still like to save the marriage.… Read More
The moment people hear that your marriage is in trouble, you get deluged with every sort of opinion, recommendation, and idea that people can come up with.
Most of it is bad.
Some of it is motivated by good intentions.… Read More
